Hehe, I hear you, being in a multinational marrage sometimes taking used to on both parts, just a natural part of life considering our different cultures. I was married to a girl from the Philippiines for 11 years, should have been a LOT less than that. Finally got fed up and told her if she was gonna do THAT kind of stuff she needed to be single and I fulfilled her wish for her. Best decision I ever made until I asked Patty to marry me. I am glad to see when people have successful marriages, specially now days! As Tom says, "Keep the faith brother". Oh, and You're OK in my book as long as you don't hold your pinky finger out when you drink coffee! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />