To inject a note of seriousness, what does Pitman consider his feminine side? Assuming he in turn was being serious, which I do have doubts about. To me, one's "feminine side" is about ways of thinking and behaving. It's about compassion, grace, and a willingness to communicate about emotions. Among other things. All are, in my opinion, needed to be the best possible man and best possible human. The key is to be completely aware and to apply the most appropriate mindset or attribute to the problem at hand. There are times when anger and violence are the tools which are going to guarantee your safety and prosperity. But then you need to recognize when that situation has ended, and it becomes time to pick up the pieces and nurture them.
So. The best and most interesting men are those in touch with their feminine side. And the best and most interesting women are those in touch with their masculine side. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />