Good point. I was at a knife class a few years ago and one man in his 20s was stuck being "the bad guy" over and over because those of us in our 40s were sucking wind too hard to do it again and again.

Keep in mind that this kind of sexual predator is pretty rare. The guy you end up kicking, punching, stabbing and/or shooting in the mall as he tries to run off with your kid is not the usual MO for these guys. They are much more likely to be the live in boyfriend of your kid's friend's mom and he seems like a perfectly nice guy and good with kids.