Welcome to the world of gun ownership. You will end up with a drawer full of holsters. Some useful, some not so much. What works for one does not work for all. Concealing a full size handgun is difficult. It is comforting, not comfortable to do so. I tried many holsters. Ended up with a Milt Sparks Versa Max. Not cheap, but I easily blew through $200 in other options before this one. It is still difficult to conceal based on my frame size and pistol choice.

The most comfortable (and fairly cheap) is the fanny pack. You look like an idiot but it is completely concealed and very comfortable. No worries about reaching for an item on the top shelf of a grocery store and exposing your rig to a less than understanding citizen. Major no no here in NY.