Billyjoebobjim, Excellent ideas! And YES, some kids AND adults don't need to have certain things, at least not without supervision.
I'm sorry that you had a bad experience, but PLEASE don't let it sour you on the site. As many as we have here, some toes can't help but get stomped on. Hopefully we can all just chalk it up to not being the same and go on with it.
Please don't stop posting because of something like that happening.