I feel bad for ya Todd. I know it isn't easy.

The whole argument started because I wasn't going to let him have my truck for today. He's not working and he can ride to Thanksgiving dinner with his sister.

But he just wants to drive it around and run out my gas.

I thought his ride was fixed?

He blew his money last week to get his car out of the shop, and won't have it again til next Friday.

It's fixed, just sitting there waiting.

If I pay to get it out of the shop, he'll never pay me back.

The day I turned 16 my Dad gave me a gas credit card. He said as long as he didn't think I was abusing it I could carry it. I had a part time job and paid for my own and bought most of my own clothes. I just thought it was my duty. Oh I carried that card for 4 years and gave it back to Dad when I left for the Air Force.

And if I don't, he'll run me crazy driving my truck everywhere and I have to sit at home when I'm off.

I couldn't trust him with something like that. He'd charge a bunch of stuff on it, or put gas in his buddies vehicles and them give him the money.

I caught him doing that with my debit card once. Went to McDonalds and the statement showed nearly $25. He said he paid for his buddies and let them pay him back.

Of course, I never got the money back to go back in the checking account.