I figure that we are adults and that we should all have some skills in communication
I tell people if you are mad at me, tell me
I am not a mind reader

I will reach out to the other guy in the next day or two
We will see what happens

I agree there. Many times I don't know what's in my own mind, let along what you're thinking.

If you want success, I wish you the the same.

Guess I should have said that I wish you success. You have already stated you are willing to go the extra mile and that means you do hope for a successful resolution.

Pauline is always worried about what other people are thinking, and always trying to be a peace maker

Some of her friends and relatives have hurt her numerous times because she wants to keep the family together

Patty is EXACTLY the same way.

Well I hope that Tom understands as I do like him
But as I said before never confirmed that he would be coming up
The other guy Bill is Tom's best friend, but I can take him or leave him
I really don't care if Bill accepts my olive branch

Pauline does not understand how I can just turn a Page and walk away from someone in my life
Like I said I am very easy going and loyal, however I don't dwell on things that I cannot control

I'm kinda the same way. If you like me fine, if you don't fine. UNLESS it is because of something I did that I am sorry for.

Even then
I will try to make amends for what I have done wrong, but I have my limits
At the end of the day if I try to make amends and you do not accept it, then I wish you nothing but the best and my door will always be open if you change your mind

Like the Lady next door. I called her parents when she was outside waving a gun around saying she was gonna blast anything that moved. AND said "They" were driving radio controlled cars in her A/C ducts, playing evil music, laughing at her and shining the little car's lights through the vents.

I told her Dad what she was doing and he said they knew she had problems but didn't know what to do. I told him what I tell everyone we get calls on like this. She needs to be evaluated cause something is not right.

Well I came home from the store the other day, her ex husband (who she told us numerous times was trying to murder her) were outside talking. I waved at her, trying to be cordial, and she went off on my. I finally told her that it was me that did the calling, all me and that she should not be treating Patty badly because of it. It of course didn't do any good. Oh well I don't care. I tried. But I DO feel sorry for Patty because of it.