Our current lifestyle is like this...
Monday thru Thursday I get up at 5:15am and leave for work by 5:45am. My commute is 55 minutes each way. I work 10 hours as an architect, and get home about 6:45 pm each day. This is unless I need to stop at Rural King, Lowe's, Menard's, Home Depot, etc for farming related items. I have to make a stop about twice a week.
Friday thru Sunday I work on the farm sun-up to sun-down.
My wife works on the farm everyday except 1 day per week which is the day she comes into town for grocery shopping and to have dinner with her family.