just found out a girl a used to work with and briefly dated, has stage 4 breast cancer, that has spread to both her breast and liver. she is given 3-5 years to live, can't remove the cancer it's spread too far. radical chemo and radiation or not an option either. she's 29 and has a 4 year old daugther. haven't talked to her yet, found out about it by third party, just don't know what to say when i do see her.