I'm really really happy to hear your little girl is doing better Dan. I know from personal experience that there is nothing so heart wrenching for the parents as having a seriously sick child, at any age.
As for the dating thing, I think if you answer the door with a gleaming Dogfather LE in your hands that you will incentivise good behavior in all her dates. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />