Bruce,
Sound advice for all to heed!
Ted, Great question, especially when it is a high dollar item and international!
Andy, my poor friend Andy. You above all people in the E-Bay world certainly do NOT deserve to get shanked this way! What they did to you is wrong and fraudulent on your behalf! They assume you have cheated this foreign buyer and take your money from your account on his word only? <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" />
Absurd!!! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />
That is like me calling the police and saying my neighbor was groping some girlfriend of my daughters and I saw him. Off to jail for 20 years because I lied? <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ooo.gif" alt="" />
Odd comparison but you get it don't you? you can't just make up stuff about someone and then have some authority figure dispense judgment on you without your side of the story! your record on E-Bay is impeccable and your character is beyond reproach. I would go to any court in the land and stand up for you. This man accused you and stole from you and you are punished by Pay Pal on his word only. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/doh.gif" alt="" />
Bad. Very bad situation. From now on TRACKING NUMBERS WITH DELIVERY SIGNATURE CONFIRMATION ONLY! If the buyer doesn't like the rules and postal cost... don't bid. Period. And finally Andy.. even if it hurts a bit...NO international sales at all under any circumstances. Many E-Bayer's from the USA have gone to these same standards.
They have E-Bay U.K. and CA and any other country now it seems. Let them buy from their home country and it will speed up delivery for all. And most important Andy Wayne Naylor will not get cheated and falsely accused again.
I am so sorry this has happened to you Andy. Please don't give up selling, just adjust your selling traits a bit! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crossfingers.gif" alt="" />
My best always,
Peace.