My plan is to make it easy for the wife.
we have only had to bug out twice, both times were a bit confusing. priorites shift when 'it' actually happens.
I am starting with: honey, food is in here. you take this. animal food in here, you take this....

The basic gear like that is to be in a closet near the front door. that way, she can grab and scoot if i am not here to supervise.

She went out today and bought 3 days of dog food and kitten MRE's.... bonus points for the wife.