Most people Bug In until they can't and then they must Bug out.
I live in Los Angeles and I think (Geographically wise) I'm in a similiar situation. I would make a decision as to what you can handle until you know you must leave.
As far as like minded individuals...depend on how "like minded" the are. Do they support fire arms. Luckily I know who knows first aid and who has an "Emergency preparedness kit"

BTW, my Mom and Stepdad (they are in their 70's) were at a block party years ago and there was a young women not talking to many people, my step dad found out she was a nurse and promptly introduced himself.."finally a neighbor I can use!"...he even got her cell phone number



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