yes, my oldest told me that she feels violated and helpless
trouble was really my wife's cat, only animal that she ever allowed on her bed in her life.
He slept every night with her, usually with his head on her hand or nuzzled into her back
Most days he met me in the front yard after work, I would carry him inside, where he would stay for a while getting petted.
I am not normally a cat person, but he was special


Just no call to do that to a cat