I commend him for his belief that we need to gain strength throughout our lives, but disagree with him on the being pleased about the scars. Just my belief and I have NEVER believed it was worth beating someone in the face over. It's there IF you want it. IF you don't, you shouldn't be FORCED to take it.
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