The one thing that has amazed me thus far in the early stages of the journey, was the lack of "care". I say that in quotes, because we have been through a lot to get here...to the point where we thought we couldn't have kids. My wife had to have a pretty severe surgery just to enable her. Her sister has had two already, working on the third, and they don't seem to understand what my wife has been through to get here....it's as if they lack any empathy for how great of a gift this is for us.

Oh well..they are the inlaws...f'em.