JJ, Everyone deals with stress in different ways. The "Trick" is finding a way for each of us individually that is not also destructive.
You don't have to tell me that. I have my own coping methods, but my friends seem to think there is no other way. Stupid, and if they were here, I'd kick their asses.
JJ its's OK to be mad at them. Its even more OK to be sad. I'm sure your not the only one that is hurting because of the choices your friends made. They surely have families that they left behind and you are all sad. Just know that your not alone. You've got the gang here in the yard.
I know that doesn't help with missing your friends but only time is going to help that. You just have to get through this one day at a time. Thats where your friends and family come in. In the yard I think you'll find a little of both.
