I think that one way "Religious" folks go wrong, turn off people is that they say "IF they do this or don't do that they are going to burn in Hell".
Personally I think this is wrong. YES it is true, you can get an IDEA of how a persons soul is by their actions, but the TRUE FACT is that even if some is a mass murderer, we CAN NOT know the true condition of their soul. They may have for some reason gone wrong temporarily but OVERALL they do believe. And once again I may be confusing the matter.
Sometimes it comes from pride Sometimes I think it comes from caring
Sometimes they come on too strong because they really care about your soul I can forgive them for that
The stripes of a tiger don't wash away.
Be a man of steel not clay
JYD #102